I am not sure why this topic came up at my professional and overeducated workplace one day, but it did. Apparently many men who are dating (in addition to believing they have the goods of a 25 year old when they are really AARP members) think women are supposed to have no pubic hair. Like not even a single hair, much less a “landing strip.” Apparently there are ladies that “wax on wax off” before every first date, even if it’s a casual meetup for coffee…”just in case.”
I asked a good male friend (aka the only one I can discuss these things with) about this. He confirmed that although he finds it disturbing, the prepubescent look is actually a thing.It’s been 10 minutes (figuratively) since my untrustworthy ex-fiancé left without saying one word. I want nothing to do with dating, much less a close encounter with a man with not much to offer except an unrealistic laundry list of things women are supposed to do. Don’t get me wrong, I appreciate a good bikini wax (or sugaring, laser, whatever), but hope this is not considered a new societal norm.
There’s so much wrong with the above I don’t even know where to start but here are some tips: If you meet a man for coffee for the first time, he shouldn’t be seeing the rest of your business close enough to know if you waxed that day, nor should you feel a need to care. If your man has a strong preference for women who constantly look prepubescent (like those with not a solitary hair), hope that he has a reasonable explanation and is willing to help with the upkeep of that fetish. If the majority of American men are demonstrating a preference, it’s time to get worried and hold on tight to your woman card. If you like this look yourself and have time for it, go right ahead. I just hope no one is doing it because they feel pressured by some sort of “new normal.” If there was ever a time ladies need to stand up and not cave in to one more thing men think we should do, it would be now.
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